She didn't steal him Sis, he simply left.

Steal Crime, verb, stealing take (another person's property) without permission or legal right and without intending to return it. "thieves stole her bicycle"

Even though by definition it's impossible, there are some women who can't face their harsh reality and accuse other women of actually, "stealing their man." Science tells us that dodo birds are extinct, I'm here to tell you that's all a lie. They can be found around us at work, in grocery stores, in our circle of friends, and even sometimes in our family. They have evolved into brain parasites and attach themselves to the brains of some women. You can identify the infected by mindset, when faced with situations often involving a man. A dodoisim episode can occur anywhere at anytime. Believing a man can be stolen is one major symptom that the infected experience. This is a very dangerous disease and is often transmitted by not using your brain, lacking accountability, and lacking the ability to use logic. I have been a victim of women infected by this and I am here to tell my story.

One thing about me is that I don't approach men. I'm a southern girl and enjoy the traditional courting ways. So that means the men who "belonged" to other women ALWAYS approached me. Yes ladies, your boyfriends, fiancés, life partners, and husbands, are often the ones initiating contact. Let me be clear, victims are ONLY women who are approached by the men, not the heffas who outright throw themselves at men knowing they are in some type of relationship. I don't advocate for violence, but if you want to cause bodily injury to those type of women, I can understand. Anyway, these men of yours are consistent, make plenty of time, and are charming. They often don't alert us about you until we discover it when we deep in or they never alert us and we get that "Hey Barbra, this is Shirley" call or text. One infected with dodoisim told me that I disrespected her relationship, first of dodo, I didn't know about it, second, I'm a stranger and you are asking me to have more respect for a relationship than the person you are in the relationship with has for it. Knowing from jump a man is in a relationship and engaging with him is not victim of dodoisim, you're simply a sidepiece ma'am. This don't apply to you, if anything you might be infected with dodoisim. Y'all after that attack I was dazed and confused. She trying to fight me but crying over him. That is misplaced angry, he hurt you but you attack me?! See, that is the lack of logic and the ability to use the brain. I sat and thought about how she accused me of stealing her man and the definition didn't fit. I thought to self, "Self, isn't stealing a person kidnapping? She never filed a missing person report. Never saw on the news that he was stolen. He always seemed happy in the photos with me and enjoyed spending his money. Am I infected too?" LOL

If you don't suffer from dodoisim and can use logic, you will understand that a man is a free person and his choice to leave or cheat on you was just that, HIS CHOICE. I know it can be painful to deal with the feelings and pain that heartbreak and betrayal can cause, but the truth of the matter is she has nothing to do with your pain. It's just easier to blame her so you can attempt to keep the fantasy of happily ever after you have in your head with this man and not face your gloomy reality. Also, unpopular opinion, understand that sometimes we are the problem and him leaving us was warranted. Can we really look at self and see if we really gave our all and best to the relationship? If he said he likes you better with long hair then you go and get a blonde pixie cut because no man telling you what to do, don't get upset with the woman he leaves you for has long hair. We like to say that the grass is not always greener, we must face the fact that sometimes we do make it difficult on our side and the grass is greener. If you are infected, heal yourself sis, it's not attractive. Signed, a survivor.

Toodle loo 👄 - Keke B. .